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If you don't have the richly rewarding relationships you desire… the intimate, empowering partnerships you deserve… and the satisfying, successful career that provides the money, freedom, fulfillment and fun you dream of… it's because of your beliefs.

Belief Busters

Hi, it's John.

Just as with last week's Report, Issue 08 will also be devoted to the work of one man, this time my friend of more than 17 years, Dr. Joe Rubino.

I first met Joe at a Leadership meeting for his network marketing company Oxyfresh, and through the years the Dr. and I have shared a number of teachers and mentors together including Richard Brooke, Mike Smith and Carol McCall.

Joe is my personal and business coach and I cannot recommend him more highly. He is one of the best coaches I've ever experienced, because he possesses a "sinserious" commitment to my taking positive, forward action, he keeps me accountable for my commitments and shows me a degree of empathy and compassion that lets me know he cares about me at all times. It's rare and wonderful and it works for me.

So, a couple of quick pieces of business and then lots from Dr. Joe Rubino.

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Okay, here's what I've got for you in Issue 08




» A Quote About Belief from Dr. Joe Rubino
» Article: 12 Steps to Restoring Your Self-Esteem
» Audio: The MasterMind Session with Dr. Joe Rubino
» Turn On (to cool and useful stuff) The Self-Esteem Book

» And, all the past Issues are HERE.




A Quote About Belief

We build our self-esteem one
empowering thought at a time.
— Dr. Joe Rubino

And what's the relationship between self-esteem and belief?

Simple and fundamental: It's cause and effect. Your self-esteem is created from the building blocks of your beliefs.



12 Steps to Restoring Your Self-Esteem


Excerpted from The Self Esteem Book by Dr. Joe Rubino.

1. Identify the source of your low self-esteem. What negative thoughts did you buy into or interpret about yourself? What new interpretations can you create?

2. Construct a list of your negative qualities and one describing your strengths. Develop a plan to work on the qualities you wish to manifest.

3. Identify lingering upsets from your past. Take action to complete each one and move on with your life in a positive, productive manner.

4. Decide today to forgive those who have hurt you as you likewise forgive yourself. Design an action plan to address and complete each strained relationship.

5. Design a specific dated plan to remove yourself from any abusive relationships. Inform people in your life of your commitment to reinvent yourself and notify them that you will no longer permit others to treat you without respect.

6. Practice creating new empowering interpretations daily about yourself.

7. Create a detailed newly invented declaration about who you are that addresses every aspect of your self-image.

8. Visualize your new positive self and create a vivid movie script of what your future will look like. Read your vision at least twice daily, upon rising and before bed.

9. Create a series of positive affirmations based upon your vision. Write these on index cards and position them where you will see them throughout your day. Create an audiotape of your new affirmations and listen to the tape at least twice daily.

10. Surround yourself with people and things that reflect your self-respect and honor your worth as a person.

11. Every night before bedtime, acknowledge yourself for some worthy accomplishment achieved that day.

12. Create an accountability support group to report your weekly progress in honoring yourself and meeting your goals. Seek professional assistance if needed.




The MasterMind Session with Dr. Joe Rubino


I recorded this Session with Joe back in May of this year. I wanted to learn a number of things, especially what Joe thought the link between self-esteem and beliefs was, and what he meant by "Extreme Self-Esteem" and what it takes to develop that.

Doing this Session with Joe was doubly special and fun for me, because besides being a friend of 17 years, the good Dr. is also, as said, my personal and business coach. Enjoy (and I believe you will).

PS. The MasterMind Sessions are directed at network marketers and direct sales people, hence you'll hear a number of references specific to those professions, yet easily translatable to any of your endeavors.




The Most Important Ingredient For Your Success

So, what is it? Joe says it's "Self-Esteem," and beyond the dictionary definition of having pride in oneself or self-respect, the French word amour-propre (amour-love, propre-own) gives a more accurate picture of what Dr. Rubino is speaking about (much the way belief as be love does). Joe's research and experience coaching and training thousands of people proved to him that low self-esteem was at the heart of all the personal and professional problems we encounter in life.

Your self esteem impacts how you experience yourself and others in the six key areas of life: Health and appearance, wealth and finances, occupation and business, relationships and family, personal and spiritual development, and your ability to have fun and pursue your pleasures and passions. If you're not experiencing the full richness of each of these areas, there are three steps Joe recommends for creating "Extreme Self-Esteem": Healing and completing your past. Assessing what's so in your life right now. Creating a "new & improved" vision for your life. And there's even more in this fascinating Session.

Click the player below to listen (57'35 Mp3):

To listen/download via the url: Click here.




The Self-Esteem Book




The subtitle of Dr. Rubino's book is: "The Ultimate Guide to Boost the Most Underrated Ingredient for Success and Happiness in Life." The sub sub-title (is that possible?) is: "A Life-Changing, Step-By-Step, Transformational Book— This book is an absolute MUST for Everyone."

PLEASE don't be put off by the razzle-dazzle surrounding the marketing of The Self-Esteem Book. (I'm saying this, because I am… a bit: Squeeze page, sales funnel, a gazillion-dollars of free bonuses, etceteras.) The book contains many, many virtues—by my count, at the very least one ("ah ha" or "hot damn," take your pick) per page. With over 150 pages, that quite a lot of value in one book. I highly recommend it.

In the often miss-guided and misty world of self-help and self- development, Dr. Rubino's book is a refreshing and rewarding real deal. Clearly explained so that you develop the necessary understanding with a bevy of rock solid how tos and an overall bias for action, The Self-Esteem Book is an instruction manual for making rapid personal and professional progress.

Cynthia Kersey, author of Unstoppable, called the book, "…a brilliant road-map to happiness, accomplishment, and to becoming an Unstoppable person." She added, "Apply the principles and you will experience a newfound sense of worth and inner peace." She is correct. That's what the The Self-Esteem Book over-delivers.

AND, Dr. Rubino, ever the Internet marketer, proposes the book like so:

Here are two free gifts for you…

He's offering a free copy of 7 Steps to Soaring Self-Esteem, an insightful, eye-opening 38 minute Mp3 audio program based on his best-selling book. In this audio you'll learn the reasons why this program has been the guide for thousands to improve their lives by elevating their self-esteem. Healthy Self-Esteem is the #1 factor for all successes in life!

PLUS—with Joe's offer you'll receive a 1 Year Subscription to "The Success Achievers Club" and "Success Code Newsletter" filled with wisdom, insightful articles, tips, free and discounted offers for people interested in possessing Extreme Self-Esteem and maximizing their happiness, success, wealth, and personal effectiveness.

Click this link to collect your free Mp3 and annual subscription: SelfEsteemSystem.com.

After you sign-up for your (truly valuable and worthwhile) freebies, you be in the marketing funnel. Enjoy the ride and, as said, I highly recommend you buy the book.



That's all for Issue 08 of the BeliefBusters Report. Please remember…


         What your mind believes you WILL achieve
         —always and in all ways.


And if you haven't already, click this link to sign-up for your own free BeliefBusters Report.

If you've questions, please contact me.

Thanks.
I appreciate you.



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PS+. There's a BeliefBusters Inner Circle Coaching Call NEXT Wednesday 09.17.08, where I'll be taking people by the hand, helping them through the BeliefBusting and BeliefBuilding process, answering all their questions and putting them on the fast track by giving them personalized, one-on-one coaching… but you can't be on it if you're not in it.

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John Fogg
John Milton Fogg, Inc.
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